Saturday, October 20, 2012

Prayer & Love

Akbar the great Mughal emperor was very particular about his daily prayers. During one of his trip, he found himself at a village at his prayer time. He stopped there to offer his last prayer of the day. While kneeling on the ground to pray, a young girl dashed into him but in her haste he did not get time to respond to this act of her. She vanished in the darknesso of the dusk leaving the angry emperor wondering who could this be girl to not have noticed him. He asked for her to be searched and brought before him. When she was caught and presented before the emperor he questioned her action, of bumping into him while he was in his prayers.
She did not seem to recollect the incident at all, so Akbar reminded her of the happenings. REalising her mistake of dashing into a praying man, especially the emporer she got apologetic of her act but also confidently explained the context. Her lover was returning after a long period of separation due to his work. The news of his arrival forced her to run towards him to greet and meet him at the earliest possible. She attributed the mistake to the haste of her love. She clarified that this justifaction was not for sympathy and forgiveness but for empathy towards her situation, while she was ready to face the due punishment.
But she also asked a candid question to the great emperor, “Although you were in prayer you got disturbed by my push while I did not feel you at all. The disturbance should have been mutual. I honestly do not remember anything hence I am wondering if my love for my beloved is more engrossing than your prayer of the Almighty?"
Akbar mentions in his autobiography, ‘AkbarNama’ that he had to ask forgiveness from that village girl. She had helped him understand love and prayer with one simple question.
I share this story not only for its moral but with respect for Akbar - a great emperor, who had the courage to accept his mistake and ask for forgiveness of a young village girl. Most importantly, it shows that we may not be born with greatness inside us but our willingness to embrace a virtue makes us great.

Self Appraisal


A little boy went into a drug store, reached for a soda carton and pulled it over to the telephone. He climbed onto the carton so that he could  reach the buttons on the phone and proceeded to punch in seven digits.
The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation: The boy asked, "Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?
"The woman replied, "I already have someone to cut my lawn."
"Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price of the person who cuts your lawn now." replied the boy.
The woman responded that she was very satisfied with the person who was presently cutting her lawn.
The little boy found more perseverance and offered, "Lady, I'll even sweep your curb and your sidewalk, so on Sunday you will have the prettiest lawn in all of North Palm Beach, Florida."
Again the woman answered in the negative. With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver.
The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy and said, "Son... I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job."
The little boy replied, "No thanks, I was just checking my performance and the job I already have. I am the one who is working for that lady, I was talking to!"

Friday, May 25, 2012

A lovely line from the movie 'Dor'

सोचता था भगवान ने तुझे बनाया क्यूँ कर, अब तो बस शुक्रिया अदा करता रहता हूँ उसका

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

What camera do you use?


This one is dedicated to all my photographer friends ...

A photographer was displaying his pictures to his friends when a lady friend asked him "What camera do you use?". The photographer said, call me for dinner and I'll let you in on my secret. The curious friend immediately agreed to the deal, considering the small price for his curiosity and the photographer' secret. On the agreed date the photographer went over for the meal. He generously appreciated the food to be very tasty and delicious. Then he followed-up with a question to this lady "What cooker do you use?". Thus he answered with a witty question back to the curious fan.

It's like asking Federer or Nadal about the make and model of their tennis racquets OR asking Beckham about the shoes he wears ...

I know we all are tempted by such stupid ice-breakers but it is such a cliche. I should confess here, I am guilty too of this very crime. Inquiring people's intent of visiting a restaurant or a hospital when we meet them all of a sudden, despite the very obvious answer mocking in our faces. Anyways, some of them can be forgiven - the rest become a good joke for others ... ;-)

I hope this will leave a smile or a smirk on your face, the next time you hear this question. :D

Sunday, May 06, 2012

Satyamev Jayate - Thank you Aamir !

Thank you Aamir Khan for coming up with 'Satyamev Jayate' ! We know your public appearance is very rare but always worth the wait! Watched the first episode of Satyamev Jayate on Star TV today and the respect for you has more than doubled. Like the straight, direct and to-the-point approach on a such an important social topic for our country. As always and as expected you are a perfectionist and  true intellect in the every sense.

Thanks for NOT putting us through another game or music show wasting an hour of our beloved Sunday mornings, instead giving us the worth of our time with a reality show in the true sense.
Thanks for NOT endorsing brands that you personally do not believe.
Thanks for NOT making formula movies that you personally would not watch. For focusing on quality, not quantity. We eagerly wait through years for your film to be released as they are always worth it.
Thanks for believing in the maturity of your audience and NOT selling any masala.
Thanks for taking a candid stance on a controversial issue and hitting in hard - right on spot. Most importantly being factual about it, being balanced in your opinion on this hard-hitting reality.
Thanks for using your celebrity status and access to millions of hearts for a social responsibility, not just commercial success.
Thanks for once again showing that you are a true Indian before everything else.

The list just goes on and on and on ...

Love you, God bless you. Sunday mornings are dedicated to you ...

Keep on making us proud ...

सत्यमेव जयते - सच्चा है प्यार तेरा ... Aamir !

Friends, to support Aamir's initiatives through Satyamev Jayate you can do one or all of the following:

SMS "Y" to 5782711 (Rs.1 per SMS.)
You can also SMS "N" to same number, if you disagree with him.

Transfer amount directly to Axis bank account 
A/c Name:SJ-SHL
A/c No.:912010021691949

Leave video & e-mails at http://www.satyamevjayate.in/

Write letters to:
P.O. Box No. 37401
J.B.Nagar Post Office,
Andheri (E), 
Mumbai - 400059.

An equal amount of donations to Snehalaya will be matched Reliance Foundation, the Philanthropy Partners of Satyamev Jayate.

Monday, February 27, 2012

Appreciation versus Recognition

Working in a multinational company, especially one based in USA there are some (work)cultural differences that need a clear understanding. The difference between Appreciation and Recognition is one of them.
We all complete tasks as part of our routine activities. The American culture basically promotes a positive acknowledgment of completed tasks in the form of Appreciation. It also strongly encourages Recognition of some key achievements. Problem is the thin line between the two. The attempt here is clarify the difference between the two.

Positive acknowledgment in most cases is Appreciation, generally to motivate the individual to strive for more. On the other hand if an accomplishment is above & beyond normal it is worthy of recognition.
Recognition is louder and public compared to Appreciations. Recognition is generally coupled with Rewards too.

In the Indian culture we are generally very stingy in appreciation hence when it happens it seems like recognition and Rewards are expected. This is generally a challenging area for most especially managing expectations around it.

Kabir ka Doha ...

बुरा जो देखन मैं चला, बुरा न मिलया कोई, जो मन खोजा आपणा तो मुझसे बुरा न कोई

Trail and Path ...

The difference between a trail and a path - Trail is a path that someone has already traveled, a path is a trail that someone would like to follow.

Trails of great leaders are paths for followers ...

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Interesting date-time moments in 2012

2 Jan or 1-Feb: 1-2-12 @ 1:2 / 12:12
10 Nov: 07:08:09 on 10-11-12
10 Nov: 10-11-12 @ 13:14:15
12 Dec: 12-12-12 @ 12:12:12
20 Dec: 20-12-2012 @ 20:12

Into the fire ...

For 19 Jan 2012 - My Last day @ BMC

"We feel free, when we escape, even if it be but from the frying pan into the fire" - Erik Hoffer, not Harry Houdini.